Here's something everyone (whether you're male or female) should do. This is from the novel "He's Just Not That Into You", which I previously mentioned in my article "Amanda's Rules of Dating". This is what you need to do, reset or re-evaluate your standards, here's a list of suggestions from the book.
- I will not go out with a man who hasn't asked me out first
- I will not go out with a man who keeps me waiting by the phone
- I will not date a man who isn't sure he wants to date me
- I will not date a man who makes me feel sexually undesirable
- I will not date a man who drinks or does drugs to an extent that makes me feel uncomfortable
- I will not be with a man who is afraid to talk about our future
- I will not, under any circumstances, spend my precious time with a man who has already rejected me
- I will not date a man who is married (or otherwise unavailable)
- I will not be with a man who is not clearly a good, kind, loving person
Now it's your turn, write down some of your own standards you came up with, and STICK to them. This short article could also be used as an example of what you SHOULD when interested in someone. For example, ask them out first, call them or return their calls/texts, etc. That is all.
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